"I have had this crush on someone for a while, now. I figured out a few months ago that he might have a crush on me (which made me really happy!) However, he is starting to talk a lot and spend more time with another girl. If I didn't know better, I would think I am almost 100% sure that he has a crush on her now, even though he might still have some feelings for me. I thought that he would like me again if I dressed cuter and talked to him more, before that other girl beat me to him. It doesn't seem to be working! A lot of times I feel kind of stiff talking to him because he gets kind of defensive. For example, I ask, "Do you have a phone?" and he answers, "Why?" I don't know why I can't just talk to him normally, unlike his other crush who talks fluently. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? HOW CAN I TALK TO HIM? HOW CAN I MAKE HIM STILL LIKE ME? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - Curly the Concerned
Dear Curly the Concerned,
Crushes are one of the evil and good things that come with growing up. They can make you have butterflies yet you can get your heart crushed when they don't go with you. But, crushes are regular people too! So talk to them like your talking to your friend. "An object at rest will stay at rest until a force moves that object" - Issac Newton. In this term I mean the object is suppose to be a relationship. Be that force! Start a conversation, or find a way to "casually" bump into them.
Guys say that we are confusing, but they are the ones who don't share their feelings. He just might have been scared of his feelings. Give him time. - 8th grader
Dear Curly the Concerned,
Crushes are one of the evil and good things that come with growing up. They can make you have butterflies yet you can get your heart crushed when they don't go with you. But, crushes are regular people too! So talk to them like your talking to your friend. "An object at rest will stay at rest until a force moves that object" - Issac Newton. In this term I mean the object is suppose to be a relationship. Be that force! Start a conversation, or find a way to "casually" bump into them.
Guys say that we are confusing, but they are the ones who don't share their feelings. He just might have been scared of his feelings. Give him time. - 8th grader